B T E R F L I
Workshops
Established Couples: 7 Principles + Workshop
This workshop blends the best of the best-in-class and has been offered in varied formats across the US and internationally. These powerful tools are engaging and practical and have strengthened the relationships of tens of thousands of couples.
- Partner interactive, tool kit experience (versus lecture format)
- Online and in person options
- For all couples
- Great gift for newlyweds or anniversaries
Singles: Lessons in Love + Series Mixer
Lessons in Love+ is designed for singles looking to increase connection and enhance the quality of their relationships while meeting others in the process.
- Online and in person
- Interactive experience
- Opportunities to meet others
Dating (Couples): Lessons in Love + Dating
Lessons in Love + Dating, blends the best-in-class for dating couples looking establish quality connection.
Whether you’re exploring what makes relationships thrive, looking to strengthen your connection skills—this short-term series offers a meaningful space to deepen both the friendship and romantic experience with a focus on quality connection.
- Interactive, tool kit experience (versus lecture format)
- Weekend session or 3 weeknights
- Online and in person options
Engaged / Premarital: 7 Principles + Workshop
This experience is for all engaged, pre-marital serious, or newly wed couples looking to establish a winning foundation, increase connection and enhance the quality of their relationship.
- Couple interactive, tool kit experience (versus lecture format)
- Online and in person options
- Great gift for engaged couples, newlyweds
Questions or for more information
What is BTERFLI?
BTERFLI is the only organization of its kind—a relationship‑enrichment company that also offers dating services with a mission centered on meaningful connection.
We serve a wide range of clients, from singles to couples (married and unmarried), as well as faith communities seeking resources for healthier relational foundations.
From dating services and workshops to couples workshops and enrichment experiences, we help you maximize the BTERFLI effect: micro adjustments, made consistently can lead to significant impact.
Focusing on what matters most to increase satisfaction in your relationships.
What does BTERFLI offer?
BTERFLI offers connection resources such as study guides and on-demand workshops, programs for personal or relationship enrichment, content for small groups and live online and in-person workshops for singles, couples, and communities. These also include topics like relationship with self and with spirituality.
- BTERFLI may (depending on demand) offer events for singles and online community groups.
- BTERFLI offers dating services
- BTERFLI offers professional network referrals for coaches and therapists
- BTERFLI assists clients in finding coaches and therapists at clients request
What makes your approach different?
We “cross‑pollinate” a well‑grounded faith foundation with evidence‑based relationship science, biology, and neuroscience.
We are not a specific research brand, a therapy brand, or the authors of a therapeutic technique. This allows us freedom to explore, test, and assess what actually works.
We believe understanding oneself and understanding relationships must be holistic—spiritual, biological, and emotional.
Research consistently shows that relationships are a key contributor to longevity and overall well‑being.
All of our relationships are interconnected.
How we relate to ourselves, to God, to those closest to us, and to our broader community shapes every other connection we build.
We don’t view singleness as a temporary moment or a siloed category.
It’s an impactful part of the broader relationship journey.
And we believe you can begin building key relational skills at any time.
You don’t have to wait for a romantic relationship to start. The sooner you begin, the more you benefit.
Is this coaching or therapy?
BTERFLI offers resources that may feel similar to what a coach or therapist provides, but we do not offer coaching, therapy or counseling.
We serve as consultants, facilitators, and educators—providing enrichment experiences and psychoeducational programs designed to support relational growth and understanding.
For our dating clients, we also offer faith‑focused dating consultants who can provide introductions similar to matchmaking.
When appropriate or upon request, we may refer clients to qualified coaches or therapists for additional support.
How do I get started?
Check out the pages below to learn more about workshops, resources and service. Or if you are a provider or faith organization, please reach out through our contact form: /contact-us
Couples page: /couples
Singles page: /singles
Our content and more: https://bterfli.ai/bceiden/
